Genital herpes / genital warts? - genital warts after 15 years marriage
My wife and I were married 15 years. When I married, I knew I had genital herpes
Months after the marriage, she saw that she had genital warts. Today he lives with someone with these sexually transmitted diseases, can only make love, spontaneously. I am 48 years old and until now I have none of these sexually transmitted diseases, but the love is very little in 15 years. I do not know how long I can live with that.
1.Should I've just told her the most? I do not want to break your heart, but I also think of me.
2.Do to live with it, if so, how to cope?
Please do not tell me to use a condom if you do, you better get in these sexually transmitted diseases, there is skin to skin and sexually transmitted diseases that can occur anywhere at any moment, and I am no longer a love marriage and sexuality, which I know have lived for 15 years. PS I have to fix it, I'm just using your laptop.
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It seems that one of you is a little paranoid. Protect prophylacticly medication in combination with condoms, you should if you do not have a particularly aggressive strain of warts, is rare. Many couples deal with this issue and have a healthy sex life. Did you talk with your doctor?
lol @ Monty.
Dude, I know you said not to tell - but you have lived with him for 15 years! You have chosen to marry someone with your condition!
Now he wants to leave for this reason?
I think there are other issues here ... Anyway ... You are an adult ... You have the right to be happy, and if you are a girl free of the disease, which can make you happy, then.
I'm not too hard on you ... Never marry someone who suffer from sexually transmitted permanent first (unless, Milla Jovovich, or Jennifer Anniston) ... Stress is simply unnecessary.
It appears that you imagine. If it bothers you, then I tell her more. You have to be happy in this life. It will not be easy to end to 15 years of relationship, but sometimes comes to an end. Good luck.
Their voices were from the disease and for better or worse health, till death do you part VERY HEAVY, you should have thought of that before you married, you know whether the reverse is true, how you would get that already manage for others as you would
Although it is a bad time for the two I'm really sorry for her. You knew when he married and had 15 hits. If my wife with AIDS 43 years, I would go with her, because I love him. It is sometimes difficult to do well, just hope you do too.
Be happy. What it needs. Life is fleeting. Do what makes you happy. You can not be with people because you do not want to harm them. And you can not love if it is not. I stayed with someone because I do not want to break your heart, and eventually happened anyway, it took a little longer. Just live your life for your happiness and everything else is to add together.
Damn, he sounds like my ex-girlfriend is married. Yeahh ... Sorry about that ......
I think there are more, then the problem of sexual transmission is completed. Yes, it is a major obstacle in a relationship, but ask yourself this question .... if something happens and we could not have sex would be good to let them? Did not you know the problems associated with this disease. If you have different positions and spontaneity, just as your wife, then do a favor for a say. But if he loves her and wants to stay in the marriage is a psychologist who specializes in this area. No help there, all ready to go further and find.
If you have enough love you w / her if they have had cancer, you end? Also, the genital warts often occur in men, so the likelihood is that they were very good, it takes only 1 contact, so that if the left is also disseminated
They learn to live with it. My friend has the problem of husband and she and her husband only to treat him. Yes, it's hard, but not in life. They have realized that the love that you leave for your wife needs to be stronger than his desire. Perhaps you are looking for new medications to control the market, that often after the outbreak, so that you can have sex. I really hope that work for you. And I congratulate him for his 15 years of marriage!
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